I seem to find myself repeatedly in situations of being with friends or someone I’m interested in romantically where they are not in same place of growth as me. I am out of balance frequently. In the Bible, it speaks of being unequally yoked. This is regarding the pulling of a plow by two oxen. When one is stronger than the other, the plow cannot go straight. This is a wonderful example of how we need to be in equivalent
relationships. Oftentimes, I tend to over give. I cannot be my lovers coach or even a best friends constant advisor. Balance like the Yin and the Yang, is key to living a life of happiness. Over giving or over receiving can be a problem. Even though I come from a place of good intention, I tend to over give. It is based from my beginnings of seeking acceptance and love. It can even have a narcissistic trait of doing so I can receive. I get in relationships where I am coaching and teaching when I see areas that are out of balance in those I am with. I don’t want to be in this place.
I want to find friends and potential romantic relationships that have equivalency. It is not like I cannot spend time with friends that are not in the same place as me and working on themselves this way. A balance includes being inspired. I want to find more people that are superior in areas that I am not. It’s not hard because I haven’t arrived and I am very much under construction. I feel like I am insane because it just seems that many love to throw others under the bus to make themselves look better. Many have such negative talk to be provocative. I know many though that hate being around that vibration. I say all this with the cognition that I do not want to be coming with an attitude of arrogance. It’s okay to acknowledge the areas that you’re good at though. It’s also very important to acknowledge the areas you are not good at. In a conversation yesterday with a client I realized that awareness is crucial for change. This concept is one that I had heard/seen repeatedly over the last few days prior. This was mimicked a conversation the
day before with my sister who said the same thing. It’s funny how our attention is peaked when we hear things multiple times maybe a few days in a row. Maybe it’s that we are suddenly aware of that or maybe it’s divine intervention that we are being told Wisdom repeatedly. All I know is that I’m now aware of the unequally yoked situation with friends and possible partners. How do I change this? I know I can call on my spiritual Soul Family for help. That is the first way I know to seek help. My Soul Family and my Guardians and my Guides are here to point me in the right direction and give me epiphanies and solutions that I may not currently know. It’s funny how we suddenly have this wonderful idea from out of the blue. Where did that come from? I believe we’re given those by our helpers beyond this realm. I’m thankful for them. I love them immensely and I talk to them often.
Unequally Yolked
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